WHAT EVERY HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD KNOW. Incontrovertibly,the man of the house” plays a vital role in making a house or home -a role for which no substitute will ever be found. The bible is clear concerning the contribution a husband can and should make in creating the atmosphere of congeniality that should be inherent in human virtues.most of the obligations he has assumed are covered in the marriage vows as he pledged in the presence of God and man,that man has chosen a patner and made a vow to the very end of life. While I realize a man’s role,in these times when some women has become very independent the fact remains that God intended for a wife to be her husband’S help meet,or helper that is the women’s role in God’s family plan. To fulfill this role given to her by God,the wife must center her interests around those of her husband. Husbands, love your wives,and be not bitter against them.colossians 3:19,husband be sure you give your wives love and sympathy; don’t let bitterness or resentment spoil your marriage. Wives be in subjection to your own husbands; that if any obey not the word of God,they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives.1 Peter 3:1.